Saturday, May 2, 2020

MY HUSBAND STOOD BY ME

A woman is a mother, daughter, wife, and sister. You have a lot of struggles in the world in which u wanted to dwell. It's not that you cannot lead your life alone or you cannot fight your battles own. You can and you certainly do!! But sometimes you come across so many situations where you are stuck and you need someone by your side and that someone is no one else other than your husband. You face so many problems while raising your kids, getting along with family members as well as other relatives or friends, trying to take care of everyone around you without hurting anyone's feelings at the cost of your own sacrifices which no one would ever see. You have to balance all the sentiments of yours and deal with all the emotional household battles.

This phase is very difficult and comes in each and every girl's life. It's a long run in which My Husband always stood by me.
The additional responsibilities of marriage, being a good wife, being a good daughter in law, and a  caring mother were never a burden on my shoulder because your strong shoulders were always there to support me.

The day I met you, my life changed....... the way you made me feel is hard to explain. You have always been there in my rough times as my greatest support, my deepest love, my truest smile, my biggest comfort, my strongest motivation. So be my PLUS ONE as you were always.

So make promises just once more that u will be there for me------

Whenever I am not well you will make me feel priceless with your extra care.

Whenever our kids argue or disrespect due to any reason you will make them understand that --" she is your mother, she gave you life, she believes in you, she will nurture you, fights for you, she loves you, she deserves respect and expects nothing else from you.

Whenever I will be exhausted and overloaded with work, please make everyone understand at home that I also need rest to put my best. Make everyone understand that you are ok with light meals for that evening just for me.

Whenever I am not on time due to some reason;
Don't make me feel guilty for the same.

Whenever I am conscious of my looks and attire, confused and puzzled;
Always inspire me to love myself and help me see the unique beauty in imperfection.

Whenever your family calls for fun;
Always make sure that I am also part of that run.

Whenever I need you as my friend you will be by my side;
So that I can share with you whatever is perplexing inside.

Although I don't want to act as romantic partners in front of anyone but I always wanted to set an example in front of our kids that how strongly and beautifully we can nurture any relation.

Today I want to express that I really love it when you cuddle with me on the couch during the movie night and hug me tight.
I love to walk with you by holding hands on the beachside.
I blush when you comment through your eyes when I am beautifully decked up.
I love it when you hold me tight while preparing the meals in the kitchen.
I love it when you miss me when I am apart from you and waiting for the moment when we would be close together.
I love it when you make me feel that I am the most wonderful person in your life.
My dear hubby I just want to say that " LOVE ME LIKE YOU DO"!!

I know you always keep saying that you don't have much to give me, but trust me I am very thankful for the way you are to me.
Life has given us a wonderful family, a happy home, and love for each other. Most importantly, it brought us together. I am so grateful to have u as my husband and the best father of our kids.

BEYOND THE POINT, I would just say that NEVER LET ME GO for my mistakes;
Just love me more so that I never put our relation on stake.
Last but not least I will do whatever....to keep us together.

Today I just want to say that in my case my husband is my supportive partner. I wish and hope that you all are able to filter out all imperfections of your life amidst the noise, when you feel alone. Always realize the importance of every relation and don't break the life balance. So dream of tomorrow that what all we can do; I know it's hard enough but some of them will surely come true.   





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